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#1 Lexxus

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Posted 28 April 2010 - 11:17 PM

I am so beyond pissed off right now. I get a phone call from my ex's phone and no one talks however I hear a girl in the background. WTF if the girl has the balls to call my phone she can at least say whatever she has in mund. So I call back and no one wants to pick up now. Forreal? we are adults now and they playing childish games. I wanna smash both their heads into tha pavement. I am so amped up to fight and am having the only anxiety at this moment. :x :x :x

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Posted 29 April 2010 - 07:58 PM

They sound very immature and silly, I would rise above it and carry on with your life. Please don't let them mess with your head. Hope you calm down soon and use some energy elsewhere! I used to take long walks or do some exercise.

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Posted 29 April 2010 - 08:24 PM

Yes it's very immature. But according to him no girl called my phone. That it had been him but had hung up because 2 of his friends were fighting and that's why I heard a girl scream. Doesn't make any sense to me because I did not hear a girl screaming in the back at all. She was talking and seemed upset, can't say exactly what she was saying because I couldn't hear well. Anyhow if that were the case he could've said when I picked up I'll call you later something is going on. It doesn't take any more than a few seconds and it's common courtesy. He's never had a problem doing it before so why all of a sudden now. He thinks I'm a complete idiot. I don't believe one word he had to say. And then he has the nerve to say he's upset with the message I left him. All I said was for him and the immature girl to act like adults and if they're going to play games on my phone to F off. That if they have the balls to call the least they can do is talk or when I called back picked up the phone. I don't see nothing wrong with that. I have a right to be upset. But apparently he gets so argumentive and pissed off which means one thing, he is up to no good. I've already been there with other exes and it always meant that something was up. Seriously I'm tired of hear the bullshit stories. Like I always say, ever since excuses and lies were invented we all end up looking good.


I was really heated for a while. But after journaling, crying, and talking to an old friend I calmed down a little. Crying gave me such a headache that I decided to lay down and close my eyes because I was seeing things blurry. I ended up falling sleep and that was my night.

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Posted 30 April 2010 - 06:01 PM

Lexxus,
At least you had a sleep and cried it out and talked to your friend and those are all healthy things to do - rather than store them up inside. I hope you can stay strong and not get too upset about the whole thing.

Take care and hope better times and more deserving friends round the next corner.x

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Posted 03 May 2010 - 10:24 PM

Yea you are right. Thanks Rosie.

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Posted 23 December 2010 - 04:56 PM

If you get further calls, just threat them that you will call the cope and sue them for harassment. Say just anything to scare them off.