[punisher]

my mother the other day said she use to be a feminist until she saw both her boys abused by women,

that made me think, im the youngest of two boys, my brother was taken advantage of by a woman who thought having babies and screwing guys over was a career, he had a baby at 16 and has paid for it ever since, the mother took the baby at 6 weeks old and then demaned everything he owned. and 17 years later, hes still paying for it, to a woman who rorts the system. whos now had, 4 Marrages in the past 10 years, excluding my brother. my parents were well off an set them up when she got pregnant, brought a house car, all that jazzz, which she took... and demanded more

then their was my story, i dont need to explain that.

although my brother and i are two totally different people, hes one of those tall thin, cool popular smoking drinking music playing band members with long hair, always popular with the ladies and stuff, and theirs me, the short fat computer nerd, the complete other end of the spectrum.

but we were both raised by a feminist, my mother wore the pants, and controlled my father, sure she taught me to be a perfect gentleman, i open doors for ladies, carry things when i can, even strangers, am always polite. this is probably a good thing,

but i also beleive i was taught, either directly, or indirectly, that women are better than men, that only men can be the abusers, and women are always right, that men know nothing and are insignificant and expendable. i also beleived that women o not like sex, and it was a problem men had for wanting it all the time.

now i dont know if thes came frm my mother or my ex wife, but their their. but i still beleive this

my mother said recently watching some tv show depicting guys in cars doing stupid stuff "this is whathappens when men dont get controlled by women" i was deeply offended by this,

both my boys were abused by women...

what do you think?

This post has been edited by punisher: 29 July 2010 - 12:16 AM

[KylieJane]

I work in an office that's 95% female.
Sometimes women can be just as cruel as men, or worse.

[glassslipper]

Kyliejane, you must've worked in the same offices as me!!

[punisher]

i think my views of women are very different from reality..

[Ed the chow hound]

Punisher,

The trouble with FEMINISM is the ISM part that is FEMINISM is an ideology rather than a honest look at finding ways to better womens lot in life. I was part of the movement in the early seventies and so was my wife but we both dropped out due to the ideology and the in fighting between the various self interest groups.

Politics is politics and truth is the first casuality in any political battle regardless of the sex of the combatants. In my opinion the anger, frustration anf hatred generated by womens liberation will go on hurting our grand children long after we are dead and gone.

Post revolution there are many changes some good and some not so good for society. There is always a price paid by the ordinary man and woman in any conflict and the battle of the sexes is no different.

The revolution destroyed my family, my health, my career and my respect for human nature. I dont march on international womens day any more.

In time things will settle down and a new set of rules will emerge but inter gender conflict goes on forever in my view.

hugs

Ed the chow hound (walking wounded warrior)

This post has been edited by Ed the chow hound: 25 August 2010 - 12:10 PM

[punisher]

tsyeah ur right ed, just trying to track my life, where did it start to go wrong to let a woma walk over me for 10 years n turn me into a slave, that shouldnt happen to a norman person right

[Ed the chow hound]

Punisher,

The good news is you are not a slave now, in future you can build a new you that you are happy to be. We are all here to support you on the road to your new self. Post as often as you want so we can be here for you.

hugs

Ed he chow hound

[punisher]

thanks ed... somedays i feel like a drone, awaiting instructions about what to do. im a slave thats become accustom to being told what to do. so thats what i do now.. im sure i somebody came alongnow and told me to go sit in the corner, i probably would do that...