Posted 19 June 2007 - 01:01 AM
Sorry if this sounds cliched. I can never make posts without using a few of them.
Posted 20 June 2007 - 07:41 AM
in your post, you mentioned that you had mild anorexia. do you see others as thinner than you no matter what size you are, perhaps exaggerating (?sp) your view of yourself, or do you happen to not fit into the media stereotype of perfect and be plus a couple of pounds? (i am on the plus more than a couple of pounds) also, are you still in school now? i am from the u.s. and we are out for the summer in my state. if you are in school, is there a counselor you can talk to? that might help. and i'm sure you've heard it before, but every single girl there is thinking the same thing about themselves. some just bury it deep, and it surfaces later in life.
i think it is good that you have friends who do want to be with you, and want you to join them. and it is good that you see that their doing it is because they care. they love you. as you are. whatever size or shape you are. they accept you. i wish we all could treat ourselves like our friends treat us and we treat our friends. you deserve it!
Posted 20 June 2007 - 06:36 PM
I live in the UK and my school is not on holiday for about two weeks. We have an eight week holiday though so that makes up for it.
I am literally fat. I am incredibly flabby. They try to tell me I'm thin but they are probably just being nice or feel sorry for me because I am bigger than they are.
Posted 23 June 2007 - 01:29 AM