Maybe I'm just sensitive
Posted 05 October 2010 - 05:14 AM
Posted 13 November 2010 - 01:28 PM
Please don't dismiss this as something trivial this is very important to your individuality, your self worth and who you are as a person. Why does he call you names? Why is is okay for him to go out and you cannot go with him? Control. He is controlling your life due to his insecurity.
You do not deserve this. I know its hard to hear these things because he is so sweet, loving comforting.. but no one deserves to made to feel down, no one deserves to be made to feel unimportant.
You are not worthless or ugly. None of these things are true and you know it deep in your heart. He needs to let you be an individual and trust you.
You trust him when he goes out. Why can't he trust you to even be with him when he is out? A loving relationship is all about equality. You deserve to be his equal why aren't you treated as such? Why are you only treated as his equal sometimes? A loving relationship is about fairness. It is not fair to call you names. You don't call him names and make him feel low, worthless and not confident about himself. So why should he?
Sometimes you need to have a look deeper into how you are treated, not just in the good times but in the bad times too. Never forget that you DESERVE to be treated with respect 100% of the time. Even when couples fight, they still RESPECT each other.
Edited by cavy_gurl, 13 November 2010 - 01:30 PM.